If you have asked these questions, you are not alone. We love our pets deeply, as part of our family. Though we know they can't stay with us forever, the responsibility of deciding when to end their lives can be a heavy burden to bear. We don't want to rob them of good days, but want to spare them any pain. We don't want to say goodbye, but don't want to prolong their suffering. It's a tricky balance, especially with chronic diseases that come with both good days and bad. The decision is never an easy one.

​

That's why when a pet parent expresses concerns about their pet's quality of life, and starts asking these these questions, they are usually right to be concerned. You know your pet better than anyone, you know when they aren't living life to the fullest. But how do you now if they just need a little extra care and support, or if it's really time to say goodbye?

​​

If you are struggling with the decision, or questioning your pet's quality of life, there are a few things to think about:

• Pain and Mobility - Are they able to move about comfortably, go for walks, jump into the boot of the car or onto the windowsill? Or are they hiding, reluctant to move, growling or whining, pacing, or panting excessively?

• Appetite - Are they excited about meals and able to eat normally? Or turning away from everything but treats?

• Happiness and Cognitive Function - Are they still able to enjoy their favourite things, like walks on the beach and greeting you when you get home from work? Or do they become disoriented or anxious just by being alone for a few minutes, or just seem to have lost that spark?

​

Below are some tools that can be helpful in answering some of these questions. And if you want to talk to someone about your concerns, all you have to do is Contact Us - that's what we're here for.​